Microlearning Lesson Plan: How to Be More Likable
Lesson 1: Introduction & Fundamentals
Objective: To understand the essence of likability and the qualities that make a person likable.
– Definition: Likability is a social trait or quality that makes a person pleasant, agreeable, and easy to be with. It often encompasses traits like empathy, attentiveness, and positivity.
– Reading Resource: [Why are some people so naturally likable?!](https://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/16leh4z/why_are_some_people_so_naturally_likeable/)
– Video Resource: [Become Instantly More Likable](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfVNLRBAbCY)
Key Takeaways:
– Likability can be cultivated and developed.
– Fundamental traits of likable people include effective communication, empathy, and a positive demeanor.
– Practicing active listening is crucial.
Activity: Reflect on interactions where you felt particularly likable or likable by others. Write down key behaviors and traits you exhibited or observed.
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Lesson 2: Practical Application & Techniques
Objective: To explore practical techniques to enhance likability in social and professional settings.
– Techniques to Practice:
– Using open body language.
– Making eye contact and smiling genuinely.
– Demonstrating genuine interest in others by asking questions.
– Reading Resource: [I made a small talk cheat sheet for a client](https://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/b8uarr/i_made_a_small_talk_cheat_sheet_for_a_client/)
– Video Resource: [How To Become More Likable In Sales | #MasteryClips](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v9G_Hp0k4Ms)
Key Takeaways:
– Small changes in behavior and communication can significantly impact how others perceive you.
– Consistency and authenticity in interactions are vital.
Activity: Practice small talk using the techniques learned. Record your observations on how people respond to your interactions differently.
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Lesson 3: Advanced Insights & Mastery
Objective: To gain advanced insights into mastering likability through a deeper understanding of behavior and communication.
– Mastery Concepts:
– Understanding the psychology behind likability.
– Identifying and replacing phrases that hinder likability.
– Navigating complex social dynamics sensitively.
– Reading Resource: [Likable vs. Relatable: Why Your Innate Desire to be Liked is Killing](www.maikosakai.com/blog/2018/likable-relatable)
– Video Resource: [10 Phrases That Instantly Make You Less Likable](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkXQ4gyGSVc)
Key Takeaways:
– Achieving true likability involves balancing authenticity with empathy and strategic communication.
– Awareness of self-sabotaging behaviors and replacing them with constructive communication is crucial.
Activity: Engage in self-reflection to identify aspects of your behavior that could be improved and set actionable goals for enhancement.
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Assessment – Comprehensive Test
1. What is the main characteristic of likability?
– A) High intelligence
– B) Agreeable personality
– C) Wealth and power
– D) Popularity
Answer: B) Agreeable personality
2. Which of the following practices can enhance likability?
– A) Interrupting in conversations
– B) Displaying open body language
– C) Avoiding eye contact
– D) Talking only about oneself
Answer: B) Displaying open body language
3. What is a less likable phrase to say in casual conversation?
– A) “Tell me more about that.”
– B) “That sounds interesting.”
– C) “Whatever.”
– D) “How can I help?”
Answer: C) “Whatever.”
4. What is the primary goal when trying to be more likable in social settings?
– A) To be the center of attention
– B) To build genuine connections and interactions
– C) To gain control over the conversation
– D) To avoid conflicts at all costs
Answer: B) To build genuine connections and interactions
*Each lesson aims to develop and deepen your understanding of likability with a layered approach from foundational skills to advanced social intelligence strategies.*
